The Power of Authenticity
Owning Your Truth in a World Full of BS
We live in a world that’s constantly asking us to be someone else. Whether it’s the perfectly filtered lives we see on social media or the relentless messages telling us we’re just one purchase away from being our “best selves,” the pressure to conform is everywhere. Exhausting, isn’t it? Quite frankly, I’m sick of it!
That’s why authenticity is so powerful. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being real. It’s about showing up as you are, with all your quirks, your history, and your truth—no edits, no filters.
Why Authenticity Matters
But let’s be honest: being authentic isn’t always easy. I’ll admit, there are days when making a reel feels daunting when I don’t feel like a perfect 10 and I don’t have the “right” outfit. But then I remind myself: that’s real life. And so, I throw up the content anyway, because I think it’s important for people to see the unpolished, human side of me, the one with the crooked nose, that’s a little too lazy to do her hair more then once a week that struggles to snap together a look before 10:00 AM. It takes courage to go against the grain, to share your story, and to embrace what makes you different. It’s tempting to hide behind a polished version of yourself, especially when vulnerability feels risky. But the more we lean into our authenticity, the more empowered we become. Trust me on this one…
Lessons from This Week’s Guest
This week on World’s Your Oysta, I had the privilege of sitting down with fashion designer Alejandra Alonso Rojas. Alejandra’s journey is a testament to the power of staying true to yourself. In an industry that’s constantly chasing trends, she’s built a brand rooted in her heritage and authenticity. Her designs tell a story—her story—and that’s what makes them resonate so deeply.
What struck me most about our conversation was how Alejandra’s authenticity hasn’t just shaped her career; it’s shaped her life. She’s proof that when you embrace your roots and own your truth, you create something that’s not only beautiful but also meaningful.
How to Cultivate Authenticity
Know Your Story: Take the time to reflect on what makes you you. What are your values? What experiences have shaped you? Your story is your superpower.
Be Honest: Authenticity starts with being honest with yourself. What do you really want? What feels true to you? Trust those instincts.
Embrace Vulnerability: It’s okay to show the messy parts of your journey. In fact, that’s often what people want to see and hear most.
Stop Comparing: Comparison is the thief to your joy. Focus on your own path & speak nicely to yourself. I did a whole episode on the power of your words last season, you can listen here if you need a little reminder on why you need not compare yourself to anyone else.
And Just to Keep it Really Real with Y’all
Some days I’ll sit down to write this newsletter or record something and I’ll feel like, "Who am I to talk about this today?" But I show up anyway. Because if I waited for perfection, I’d never get anything done. It’s a practice, a commitment to yourself, and a gift to the people around you. When you show up as your true self, you inspire others to do the same. And isn’t that what we all need right now? More realness, more connection, and more courage to own who we are.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to tune into this week’s episode of World’s Your Oysta. My conversation with Alejandra Alonso Rojas is full of heart, inspiration, and practical wisdom. You can listen on all major podcast platforms and watch on YouTube.