
The Joy In Being Where Your Feet Are
I know I’ve been getting deep with you in the “Pearls” these past few weeks, but this week, I’m taking it back to the old days—when Pearl in my Oysta was just us, catching up and sharing a little girl time. Because honestly, babe, not everymoment needs to be a learning moment.

Paula’s Picks - Jennifer Fisher
After sitting down with the incredible Jennifer Fisher for an in-depth chat, I couldn’t help but fall even more in love with her stunning collection. Her pieces are more than just jewelry—they're a statement of confidence, boldness, and style. Whether it’s her iconic hoops or the signature cuffs, every item feels like it was made to empower and elevate. In this post, I’m sharing my personal favorites from Jennifer Fisher Jewelry, and the best part? You can shop them all right here.

If You’ve Ever Faced A Setback, This One’s For You
The path to success is never linear, it’s full of twists, turns, and unexpected detours. While setbacks feel shitty in the moment, they often serve as the very catalyst for growth and reinvention. And sometimes, your greatest challenges might actually be paving the way to your biggest breakthroughs.
Life never goes according to plan. But honestly? I think that’s a good thing.

Paula’s Picks - Second Thoughts
When I was preparing for my recent photoshoot, my stylist Elaine (who is incredible if you ever need a stylist!), introduced me to an incredible brand called Second Thoughts, and I knew I had to share it with you. Not only do they create stunning, one-of-a-kind pieces, but they’re also redefining what it means to be sustainable in fashion. Plus, as a little treat for my readers, you can enjoy 15% off all orders with the code OYSTA15!

The Power of Authenticity
We live in a world that’s constantly asking us to be someone else. Whether it’s the perfectly filtered lives we see on social media or the relentless messages telling us we’re just one purchase away from being our “best selves,” the pressure to conform is everywhere. Exhausting, isn’t it? Quite frankly, I’m sick of it!
That’s why authenticity is so powerful. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being real. It’s about showing up as you are, with all your quirks, your history, and your truth—no edits, no filters.

Paula’s Picks - Cozy Edition
Cozy season is here, and I’m all about layering up and reaching for my favorite coats. I absolutely love a good coat (maybe a little too much!) and have quite the collection. So, I thought it would be the perfect time to share a few of my favorites—from ones I already own to new purchases and a few that are still on my wish list.

The Confidence Code
Confidence is magnetic. It draws people in, helps us take bold steps forward, and makes us feel truly alive. Yet, it’s not something we’re born with…it’s a skill, a muscle we can develop with the right tools and a bit of courage. This week on World’s Your Oysta, I interviewed my friend Elizabeth Sulcer, a renowned stylist whose unique perspective on confidence has shaped not only her own journey but also how she approaches fashion and self-expression for her clients. Listen here on November 17th to hear Elizabeth share how her confidence was built through a stricter upbringing and her advice for anyone looking to own their power and self-worth.


embracing your yesness
As I step into Season 3 of World’s Your Oysta, I find myself reflecting on a topic that resonates deeply with me: the notion of waiting for opportunities to find us. Why are we conditioned to think that success is something that comes knocking at our doors, rather than something we can create for ourselves?

mantras & journal prompts for daily check-in
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mantras & journal prompts on Eliminating Limiting Beliefs
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paula’s picks june 2024
Hello, darlings! Welcome to the June edition of my Hot Rich Auntie Approved picks. As the sun starts to shine brighter and the days grow longer, it's the perfect time to refresh our wardrobes, beauty routines, and lifestyle essentials. This month, I've curated a selection of must-have items that epitomize elegance and luxury. From wellness travel hacks to skincare products that promise a radiant glow, these picks will have you living your best, most fabulous life. So, pour yourself a glass of N/A bubbly, sit back, and let's dive into the ultimate guide to June's indulgences.


Better in seven
Our habits and actions shape our identity and determine our trajectory over time. Whether we consistently embrace positive or negative behaviors, they determine our character, influence our beliefs, and ultimately define who we are. After thinking on this for a while, I created something I call “Better in Seven,” which is 10 small habits to add to your daily routine that will yield a significant impact in one weeks time. I’ve listen my list above but encourage you to make changes that better reflect your needs. I challenge you to commit to "Better in Seven" for one week.