Getting back on Spironolactone after years off of it feels like a full-circle moment—one I never thought I’d have to experience again. But after months of the worst hormonal breakouts of my life, here I am. I’m 37, and to say this has been heartbreaking is an understatement. Not only am I dealing with the inevitable signs of aging, but I’m also breaking out like a teenager? Make it make sense.

If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I’ve been on a journey with my skin—one that’s had its ups and downs, but lately, I’ve been seeing some encouraging progress. We’re not at the finish line yet, but the improvements over the past few weeks have definitely been motivating. A few of you have reached out to ask what I’ve been doing differently since it seems like things are looking up, so I wanted to share my routine and bring you along on this part of the journey.

First, a little disclaimer: I’m definitely not a doctor (and always recommend you consult yours). But here's what my dermatologist told me: "Good old-fashioned hormonal acne." Her advice was simple: simplify my skincare routine and combine oral medication with topical treatments to see the best results.

Here’s what my routine looks like right now:

When it comes to fragrances that exude elegance and timeless sophistication, Parfums de Marly has a special place in my heart. Their scents are more than perfumes, they’re olfactory journeys that transport you to places of luxury, power, and allure. Here are my absolute favorites from the collection, along with a little secret about how I create my ultimate showstopper scent.

I’ve got an obsession with Argento Vivo’s new Panthera collection, and honestly, it’s doing all the heavy lifting for this week’s outfit. The Panthera Link Necklace, Panthera Link Bracelet, and Panthera Link Earrings are everything…bold, glam, and just edgy enough to make any look feel elevated.

This long holiday break? It threw me for a loop. Don’t get me wrong—I love the idea of a cozy, restful pause to reflect and recharge. But in practice? Let’s just say I had to face some hard truths about myself.

Here’s the reality: I’m addicted to MOVING. The quiet days with nowhere to go and nothing to do left me feeling restless, like I was missing something or falling behind. It turns out, I’m a certified busybody. I thrive on structure, productivity, and a calendar that’s packed to the brim.

I dare you to enter 2025

with no negative self-talk, no animosity, no limiting beliefs, no bitterness, no emotional baggage, no unforgiveness, no jealousy, no judgments, no comparisons, no self-doubt, and no tear.

I dare you to release it all.

I dare you to allow 2025 to be your year of energetic liberation and peace, and your greatest consciousness shift yet.

I dare you to choose your next-level, reality self where miracles, higher solutions, and opportunities abound.

I dare you.

Welcome to the Rich Auntie Blueprint—a guide for those ready to embrace a life of abundance, self-trust, and unapologetic freedom. This isn’t about material wealth (though that’s a fun perk); it’s about a mindset. It’s about living life on your terms and stepping into your power as the main character of your own story.

Here’s how you can embrace the Rich Auntie energy and make 2024 your most intentional, abundant year yet:

A new year is upon us, and there’s no better time to set the tone for how you want to live it. That’s why I’m so excited to introduce STELLAR—a new digital marketplace designed to help you turn your plans into unforgettable moments and make sure no opportunity goes to waste.

Whether you’re channeling your rich auntie vibes to book that dream getaway, carving out time for some much-needed relaxation, or planning to show up and show out at an event—STELLAR is the app that makes it all easier and way more exciting.

As we approach the new year, I’ve been reflecting on the little things that make life richer, easier, and more joyful—the habits, tools, and rituals that help me feel my best. These aren’t just products or practices; they’re anchors in my day-to-day life, helping me stay grounded and connected even when things get hectic.

I wanted to share them with you, not to add to your to-do list or shopping cart but to inspire you to think about what truly works for you. As we head into 2025, it’s not about overhauling everything all at once, it’s about refining what matters and curating a life that feels good to live. So, here’s a peek into the essentials that keep me thriving and aligned:

This past week, I had the privilege of traveling to Puerto Rico with my Abuela. It wasn’t just a vacation—it was a journey into our family’s roots, a chance to connect with where it all began. We visited the town where she was born, walked the streets she grew up on, and met relatives I’d only ever heard about.

I’m thrilled to highlight one of our show’s sponsors and a personal favorite of mine: Argento Vivo. Their pieces are the perfect blend of timeless elegance and everyday versatility. From elegant necklaces to bold rings, Argento Vivo’s jewelry effortlessly elevates my looks whether I’m heading to work or the studio to record. Truly, their collection is a staple in my jewelry box and my life.

There’s something truly transformative about turning daily routines into rituals of self-care. When it comes to creating those moments of intentional indulgence, Crown Affair is my go-to. Their products embody everything I love about slowing down and savoring life—thoughtful design, exceptional quality, and a philosophy that celebrates taking your time.

Here are my absolute favorite Crown Affair products and why they’ve earned a permanent spot in my routine:

In a world that never stops moving, where productivity is glorified and busyness is a badge of honor, the idea of slowing down can feel almost radical. But this week, I found myself deeply inspired by three simple words from my conversation with Dianna Cohen, founder of Crown Affair: “Take your time.”

You don’t need to tell me twice—skincare is expensive. Trust me, I know—I’m a woman, and I’ve been buying it for years too! As much as I love skincare, I’m always on the lookout for ways to incorporate more affordable products to help cut down the cost of maintenance. After many years and what feels like nine billion product trials, here’s what I’ve learned...

If you know me, you know I have a deep love for turtlenecks. Honestly, I’ve been obsessed with them since I was a kid. I can vividly remember being 5 or 6 years old, rocking a turtleneck with my little CK overalls—way before I even knew what fashion was. Then, when I started developing my style in dance school, you could always count on me to be wearing a turtleneck leotard. It’s just always been my thing.

I know I’ve been getting deep with you in the “Pearls” these past few weeks, but this week, I’m taking it back to the old days—when Pearl in my Oysta was just us, catching up and sharing a little girl time. Because honestly, babe, not everymoment needs to be a learning moment.

After sitting down with the incredible Jennifer Fisher for an in-depth chat, I couldn’t help but fall even more in love with her stunning collection. Her pieces are more than just jewelry—they're a statement of confidence, boldness, and style. Whether it’s her iconic hoops or the signature cuffs, every item feels like it was made to empower and elevate. In this post, I’m sharing my personal favorites from Jennifer Fisher Jewelry, and the best part? You can shop them all right here.

The path to success is never linear, it’s full of twists, turns, and unexpected detours. While setbacks feel shitty in the moment, they often serve as the very catalyst for growth and reinvention. And sometimes, your greatest challenges might actually be paving the way to your biggest breakthroughs.

Life never goes according to plan. But honestly? I think that’s a good thing.

When I was preparing for my recent photoshoot, my stylist Elaine (who is incredible if you ever need a stylist!), introduced me to an incredible brand called Second Thoughts, and I knew I had to share it with you. Not only do they create stunning, one-of-a-kind pieces, but they’re also redefining what it means to be sustainable in fashion. Plus, as a little treat for my readers, you can enjoy 15% off all orders with the code OYSTA15!

We live in a world that’s constantly asking us to be someone else. Whether it’s the perfectly filtered lives we see on social media or the relentless messages telling us we’re just one purchase away from being our “best selves,” the pressure to conform is everywhere. Exhausting, isn’t it? Quite frankly, I’m sick of it!

That’s why authenticity is so powerful. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being real. It’s about showing up as you are, with all your quirks, your history, and your truth—no edits, no filters.